If your children are young, you've probably thought about who would raise
them if for some reason you and the other parent couldn't. It's not an easy
thing to consider. But you can make some simple arrangements now that will
allay some of your fears, knowing that in the extremely unlikely event you
can't raise your kids, they will be well cared for.
Naming a Personal Guardian
You should name one personal guardian (and one alternate, in case your first
choice can't serve) for each of your children.
Legally, you may name more than one guardian, but it's generally not a good
idea because of the possibility that the coguardians will later disagree. On the other hand, if you prefer that two people care for
your child -- for example, a stable couple who would act as coparents -- name both of them, so that they each have the legal power to make important
decisions on behalf of your child.
